前几天在面子书留传了某个女生的自述，
她说她是现代恐龙妹，
故事大纲里大约的描述了她因为肥胖而遇见一些原本在网上声称要追求她的男生，因为见面后开始回避她，她也说起好一些人在交朋友或男女朋友时都一味的用外表衡量。
其实，我并不是不赞同她的说法，
但是，事实是，现实社会里，每一个人都是用美与丑来衡量愿不愿意接受一些人或事物得。
就算是小朋友也会被丑怪的东西吓坏。
世界，就是如此不公平。
当然，我们不会介意和心底善良的恐龙交朋友，
可是，谈情说爱，又有多少人愿意呢？
外表都不讨好了，谁会想跨出第二步？
别说我们现实了，
就说说这一些所谓的恐龙家族，如果，他们真那么不在意交男女朋友的外表，哪干吗还到处与美丽帅气的人交朋友呢？
难道他们也不介意自己的男女朋友不好看吗？
难道他们在崇拜偶像之时，不也是先以外表衡量他们吗？
其实，我个人认为，在抱怨埋怨社会现象前，
应该好好想想到底自己该怎么好好提升，改变自己吧？
就像别人说你笨，没知识，事实就是如此，
而你也不愿学习，难道你要抱怨说干吗别人那样说你吗？
竟然知道社会是如此，自己，也是如此，
那就应该好好努力让自己变瘦，变漂亮，帅气啊！
不是有这样一句话吗？
世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人，
如果，连自己也不愿提升，改变自己，增加自信，
那就别再说社会对不起自己了，更何况，自己也是评外表为别人或事物评价的人。。。。。
There was sometimes back I had read an article in Facebook that written by a gal whom call herself "Miss Dinasour".
She claimed that she met some guys from the internet and when after met,
those Guys that told her they like her just avoid her,
She said there are so many plp in this world who love to know frens started from their look
I cant say I disagree on what her claimed.
But, in the reality, everyone will try to know new things and jugde them by their look from started,isnt so?
Even those little kids if they saw some ugly things, they will also cry and feel scary
This is the World, This is the Reality,
Of cos we dut mind to have a "Dinasour" fren
But, if come to a relationship,
How many of us dut mind how our future Partner or Soul Mate looks like?
Let's see how "Dinoasour Family" behave while they wanna get to know a new fren?
Aint they Judging and Knowing a person from their look when started?
They really dut wish to get a Pretty GF or a Handsome BF?
What's the reason they will like an Idol ?
Isnt it a reason that he is Handsome or She is Pretty?
Actually, I am thinking when before you started to complain or angry bout something
You should really think and consider is that anything you should improve yourself
Just like those plp if they r stupid or they dut willing to learn,
How can they get Frust when someone telling the truth?
If you are really know you are in the way how other see you,
Than you should keep moving and find the way to improve yourself!
There's a Pharse in chinese,
There is no Ugly Lady in the world, Only Lazy Lady in the World,
If you unwilling to change yourslef and improving better,
Than Please, Stop Complaining on how others look and judge you while You are also one of them who judging others by thier appearence.................
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