Wish!!希望

希望，
对阿，2010就快过啦，
2011有什么新愿望呢？

那天，和朋友聊起，
他问起了我这个问题，
结果发现，
我除了想要多一把吉他，
买个专业相机，
学会潜水，
我好像没什么希望了呢。。。。

其实，不管大家的愿望是什，
是简单得，
艰难得，
有计划得，
没有规划得，
最重要得，
就是在新一年里，
一定也要过得开心，不是吗？

你们的愿望我可没办法实现啦，
不过，开心，我能传授几招啦，
但愿大家，
计较少一点，度量大一点，
脑袋记得开心多一点，难过的少一点，
生活要求简单点，给与别人多一点，
懦弱少一点，自信多一点，
烦恼少一点，笑容多一点，
珍惜拥有得多一点，比较少一点，
抱怨少一点，体谅多一点，
最后，分享多一点，自己苦恼少一点，

记得咯，要努力再努力，让自己在新一年过得开心哦。。。。

遗憾。。。。

马来西亚，面子书，
昨天凌晨发生了震惊世人的悲剧，
也让我觉得悲哀，

一个22岁的华裔男生，
因为感情问题，而跳楼轻生了。
在他临走前，在面子书发布了他留给那女生的遗书，
也冷静的在面子书交待一切。

事情发生后，大家都在议论纷纷男生做得事，
到底是伟大，还是愚蠢，
也有人借用此题在部落格大写特写，

大势报道整个情况，
还贴上了男生与前女友的部落，
文章，合照，等等。。。。。

是真的只为死者讨回公道？
为家人得以祝福？
见人见智，
这些事情，我也不想评论。

但是，对于男生所做的决定，
我只能说，遗憾，
遗憾他在决定时，忘了身边挚爱他的人，
遗憾他在临走前，还是没办法释怀，
遗憾他经不起时间的煎熬，
也经不起人生的考验，
遗憾他在悲哀难过时，周遭的朋友家人并没发现。

如果，看见他在与女友分手后在部落格的发表的文章，
他所写的，＂you are MINE, MINE, MINE forever......wahahahaha!!!!!"
就会不难发现男生心理其实一直不想放下，
但是，也许，对于大家，分手时很平常的事，
更何况是只有短短四个月的恋情？
所以，大家都忽略了他的悲哀，
他的想不开，他的痴情．

也许，生在这个年代，
这个＂合的来就一起，不合就分开的年代＂，
大家已经忘了爱情该给的承诺，
爱情该有的坚持，
如果说他有错，就错在他生错了年代，
太相信爱情，太相信彼此给的承诺．

没错，对于他的父母，家人，疼惜他的人，
他的确太自私了，
但，如果，他现在是为了拯救一条生命而牺牲，
你们还会觉得，他，自私吗？
我相信，赞扬的回应会多余辱骂与批判的声音．．．．．
但，如果站在家人的立场，那也何尝不是自私？？？

对于那位女生，只能说抱歉了，
她在分手后的放不开，在此与对方见面，
这，得却误导了男方，
竟然不能一起，就完全的放手，
那在是给与对方最好的疗伤方法，
她，也没错，错在看不清原来，爱情可以对一个人那么重要，
因为，她觉得自己能渡过的疗伤期，对方也可以．．

已经离开的人，
其实，已经听不到，也不需要理会大家的回应了，
只是留下的人悲痛的渡过，
我相信，大家的一再提起，追问，批评，
只会让他们觉得更痛苦，难受．

不管他所做的决定是对或错，
他是否能够上天堂，
是否会一再那么坎坷的走下一世，或下下一世，
这些都不是他的亲人想听见知道得，
我们能做的，就是献上最后的祝福，
最后的祷告，与尊敬，原他一路走好，
来世，别再为情所困了，
安息吧．．．．．．

Malaysia, facebook,

Occurred early yesterday morning there's a news shocked the world,

And makes me sad,

A 22-year-old Chinese boy,

Because of failure in Love,had jump off from a building to commit suicide.

Before he gone,he left a note for his Ex girlfriend in the facebook,

Also he was also wrote down all his feeling on facebook between the last hour he gone

After this incident, everyone is talking about the boy for what he done,

There's argument and discussion about is it really worth it? 

Or was him Stupid?

This issue also been using for bloggers, 

They posted it, discuss it,

And labeled with his article, pictures, blog on their Blog or post

Is it what they doing only justice for the dead?

To bless the Family?

Well , I got no comment.

However, the decision made by the boy,

It is Sorry only I can say,

Too bad, when he made the decision, he forget those Love him

Too bad, before he left, he still can;t let go

Too bad, he can not take the time to be in suffer,

Too bad, he can not go thru the test in his life,

Too bad, when he was sad those around him didnt notice.

If you read his blog after breaking up with his girlfriend,

He wrote, "you are MINE, MINE, MINE forever ...... wahahahaha !!!!!"

Psychological it is easier to seem that he doesnt wanna ;et go on the relationship,

But perhaps, for us, breaking up is a very common topic for nowadays this twenty century,

Moreover, the romance is only a few months?

So, we have neglected his sorrow,

We think that he takes things too hard, and his infatuation.

Perhaps, for our age here, 

We all think that, "we will be together if we are click, just let it go, if you are not suitable"

We had forgot the serious and sincerity in Promises,

and Love should be last forever,

If he was wrong, i think, he was wrong to born in now, this century

He giving himself too much in love, and that's what we are not doing nowadays

Yes, to his parents, family members, those loving him

He is selfish, leaving them, giving up his life so easily,

However, if, he is now sacrificed to save a life,

You will feel that he is selfish?

I believe that would be superfluous praise than sound of scolding and insult

However, if he is really a hero for saving a life,

Dont you think he is still the selfish one for his family???

For that ex girlfriend, i can only say sorry,

She refused to go on but, she still met him

This may made him feel confused again,

Why shouldnt you let go and just leave him alone if you don't wanna be with him anymore?

He should have the time to be alone and stop meeting the gal to heal himself,

I wont say she is wrong neither, 

If you think she was wrong, the only mistake she make,

Is that she never know that LOVE can be so important to someone,

Because she felt she could through it,  and she thought the other can too. .

The person had leave,

Wont hear, nor know what everyone's response,

But for those whom loves him and still here,

I believe the judgment, discussion, insult,

Will only make them feel more pain, and uncomfortable.

No matter is his decision right, or wrong

Whether he can go to heaven or not,

Whether will him be tough still in his next life,

I dont think these are those his family members or those love him wanna know

We can only now pray and bless that he will live better in his next life

And his family and those love him to stay stronger to walk thru,

This is the only last Respect we can do for him

Rest in peace. . . . . .

是不是？

是不是每一个成人，都应该学会保护自己？

是不是成长了的孩子，都要学会自己坚强？

是不是每个进入社会的人，都该知道如何伪装自己？

是不是任何一个成人，都得变得现实无情？

是不是每个受过感情创伤的人，都应该别那么轻易相信爱情？

是不是被欺骗过，就应该选择怀疑？

是不是被玩弄过，就能不必对爱情认真？

是不是被出卖过，就可以学习出卖别人？

人，就是应该这样吗？

那么，当初的真心被埋没在哪了？

可以遗忘了吗？

可以不再以了吗？

这样，就会很开心吗？

面具，不会累吗？

对不起，原谅，

原谅我学不会这些长大了，就该学会的事物，

因为，我没办法把真感觉，真心，全埋没了，

虽然，还是会受伤，

虽然，有时会累，

虽然，没人明白我，

但是，我，还是无法学会，

我宁愿活在自己真心的孤单世界，

也好过学习带着面具，

学会面多虚假，

因为，我，在哪里，找不到，“开心”。。。。。

Is dat every adult should learn to protect themselves?

Is dat a kid, must learn to be strong?

Is everyone who want to survive in this world,would have to know how to disguise yourself?

Is every adult, had to become ruthless reality?

Is everyone who suffered emotional trauma, should not so easily believe in love?

Is those being cheated, you should select the doubt?

Is those been cheated in love, can not seriously in love?

Is those been sold off to sell to others can learn?

Is it everyone should be this way? 

And the reality should buried where it?

You can forget it?

Can stop caring bout it?

Is this the happy ending?

Not tired with the Mask?

I'm sorry, pls  forgive me,

Forgive me for not yet learn how to grow up,

Because, I cant bury my feeling, my sincerity,

Although still injured,

Although, sometimes tired,

Although no one understands,

But, I still not yet learn,

I would rather live in my own lonely world,

Better than with a mask,

Learning to survive in fake world,

Because, it will never be, "happy." . . . .