The meaning of CHANGE “改变”

今天一如往常的，公司“大”开会。
怎么说“大”开会呢？
本公司每一次的开会主要都来来回回重复那几个人，
只有三个月或，某些特别事故才会全体部门一起，“大开会”。

结果，说来说去的都是老问题，
政策该了，规则该了，
可是，人还是一样，老毛病。

虽然，我们的“阿头”一再强调对事不对人，
但是，谈到好多问题，还是很明显看出是在偏袒某些人。
问题，当然要决绝，但是，一而再再而三得认为是某个部门，某个人的错，
我本身就觉得很不应该，因为，在认为别人做错之时，
你，有检讨问题出在哪？自己又有没有做错呢？

我承认，好多事，好多问题，
是因为一些人作了让别人麻烦的事，
哪，你们自己呢？
是否有在用心里的尺衡量别人之时，顺道量量自己？
当我们想找决绝方案时，你们却一再重复说，是别人的错，
哪,怎么决绝？

当你希望别人了解你们的工作性质，体谅你们的时侯，
你们可有好好聆听别人，和别人沟通？
对事，不对人？
是吗？那就请别再用不一样的语气，对不一样的人当遇见一样的问题。
感情和你好得，你就能体谅他们的工作，
感情平淡得，就需要别人体谅你们的工作，
这种职位，不错，我也想要。

不了解我的工作，所以，我的工作就是很轻松，很自在？
别人辛苦的时候你们没看见，那，就只有你们辛苦？
自己受了压力，就能对公司同事心情不好，
那，我们这些在外奔波受气的人，
脾气又该对谁发泄？

我不需要你们体谅我的工作，
也不需要你们认为我的工作有多为难辛苦，
但是，请你在发脾气时，想一想，我们真的应该受你的气吗？
请你在要求我们合作之时，想一想，你们用什么语气回应我们，
请你在自以为自己很忙碌时，想一想，别人又有比你轻松吗？
如果，你觉得工是我们自找得，应该接受，
哪，请你也好好接受自己应该做的工作，
应该如何对待同事的态度。

改变，要别人改变，先从自己的态度开始吧。

”Wall Street“

刚看了一部由“Shia La Beuof” (Transfomer) 的男主角，以及老将明星"Michael Douglas"主演。
“Wall Street 2, Money Never Sleep"
其实，我并没看过多年前由"Michael Douglas"主演的"Wall Street"，
但是因为名字关系，一听就已经大概猜到电影的故事大纲了。
会走入戏院观看这场戏不只因为"Shia La Beouf"也因为有老将明星的原因。

我并没有很期待故事会有太多的惊险或起落，
因为很清楚的了解这一类型的电影是不可能有什么动作场面得。
所以，一开始就明白进入电影院向看得是一套用“心”讲故事的电影。

故事的内容并没有令我太意外，
除了勾心斗角，就是已经预算得，男主角将会被他最熟悉的人欺骗的结果，
但是，让我比较深记脑海得，是男主角与女主角那种看似平静，却又如此重要的爱情。
男主角失去了培育他，栽培他的再生父亲时，伤心落泪，
但，也在那一刻，他向女主角求婚，
看起来很平凡的一面，但是，句子却那么深入内心，
男主角会在那刻求婚的原因，是因为他发现，原来，好多事情都不能够等待，
时间，更不能浪费。
这就是我们人生里忽略的事物，“时间”。

故事里，穿插了一些男女主角间的互动，
就像是男生用了他独有的一百万买了一枚他认为最漂亮的钻石戒指给心爱的女主角，
但是，女主角却在最终却要求男主角回收，
因为她所要的不是最贵重的礼物，
而是最真心，最诚意的礼物。
导演很微妙的把一个每天见证经济起落的男生，
许配给一位不在意盈利，只在乎生活意义的女生。
这让观众们看出了社会现实与内心追求的对比。

人们终是无止境的追求金钱，
却忘了其中真正的意义，
结果，没有明智的计算，无止境的作认为对的事，
到最后，房屋不是自己得，汽车是银行得，还的税越少购买的越多，
知道为什么富有的人越来越富有吗？
因为他们追求的不再是金钱，
而是名利，而是成就感。

故事里任何一人都没有对，与错，
有得，只是每个人为了自己的目标与梦想而做得事情，
就像现实中的我们，
作任何抉择，作任何事情，都着为了两个字，“生活”，
生活的定义，方向，该怎么过，没有对错，因为都是你自己的决定。

就像故事里老将说的，“This is not about the Money, It's about the Game we are playing, The game between Human Being." （这不再是因为金钱，而是游戏，人们之间的游戏。）
如果，你不怕闷，也享受以故事为主的电影，
那，这绝对是一部值得观赏的电影，
如果，你追求的是感官上的刺激，看了就算，
那，劝你别浪费你宝贵的时间了。
最后，有一句我超喜欢，由男主角引述的句子与大家分享，
“What's 'INSANSE'? It's when people DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN, BUT HOPING A DIFFERENT RESULT........."
(什么是“疯了”？意思就是说，当某个人每天每一次做着重复同一样的事物，却期待有不一样的结果。。。。）
你，疯了吗？

Had you guys watch this new movie by "Shia La Beouf" (Transformer) and "Michael Douglas" name "Wall Street 2"?
Well, I went for the movie today,
I didnt watch the part one by "Michael Douglas" before years ago (when I was still a kid),
The reason I went for this Part two, it's not only because of "Shia La Beouf",
"Michael Douglas" this popular and talented Movie Star was one of my reason to walk into the cinema for this movie too.

Actually, I didnt really expect to watch a "Unexpectable" story when I go for it,
As I know from the name, I already understand that this is some source of movie which need you to think and feel.

The story didnt give me much surprise,
It's bout the money, How people wanna stand on the top,
How people cheated each other,
Just like what I expected, I knew that "Shia La Beof' (Jacob) will be cheated by the one he trusted so much.
What's really keep remind me is the LOVE between Jacob and his wife.

When Jacob lost his Life Father,
He was so sad and that's the time he asked his gal to marry him,
It's seems so normal and nothing special,
But, the words he told, is deep into the heart,
The reason he asked her by that moment is that,
He finally realised things Cant wait, especially when time goes by,
You won't know what will happened NEXT.
The thing what we are using it everyday and forget how important it is, "TIME"

There are some part that talk about the relationship between Jacob and his wife,
They are both living with each other like used to be,
No romance and nothing special,
But you can feel and sense that,
They can't live without each other,
That's the feeling we truly need in Life, isnt so?

The Director so cleverly combine this two totally different person in a relationship,
A guy who work in a Firm that keep watching and knowing the economic growth and drop,
All surround him, is about MONEY,
But the lady who is doing and reaching her own wish which in a NON PROFIT organiztion.
This really shown how US now in the world fighting in reality and trying to combine and reaching our dream together.

Everyone in the world keep chasing and wishing to earn more money,
But we deffinately forgot what's the meaning of MONEY,
Until we realised one day that those thing we owned is ACTUALLY not belong of us,
Just like our car, our houses, our career,
Know why are those Rich people getting richer?
Cause they are no more interested in Earning money,
What they are really into is their Pride and their Satisfaction,

There is noone in the movie who is Right or who is Wrong,
They are just those people doing things by going after their target and achievement,
It's just like US in the real life,
Any decision you make, any move you take, It is all because of "LIVING"
Thers's nothing to judging you for "WRONG" or "RIGHT"
Because how you wanna live your life is the decision Made by you,

Just Like what Gakou said in the movie, "This is not about the MONEY, It's about the GAME, GAME that we playing between HUMAN BEING."
If you are some source of person who enjoy nice story and  enjoy meaningful deep thinking,
This is the one you should go,
If you are those who only wish to be entartain and don't wanna be bore,
You should skip this movie,
and Lastly, there's a pharse that Jacob said in the movie and I love to share,
"What's 'INSANSE'? It's when the peopls DOING THE SAME THNG OVER AND OVER AGAIN, but HOPING A DIFFERENT RESULT......"
So, ARE YOU INSANSE?

追求简单的快乐。A simple Happiness

人长大了，踏入社会，就会变得越来越自我保护。
简单的想法，会变复杂，
开始猜测别人想什么，
开始担心别人计算什么，
开始学习怎么编制美丽的谎言，
开始学习怎么勾心斗角，

把当初刚踏入社会，
想要勇往直前的目标，理想，
全都忘了，变形了，
恋爱中跌跌撞撞太多次，
也对选择爱人小心了，防范了，
没有以前的冲动，没有以前的跟着感觉走了，
交朋友开始以利益为主了，
吃喝玩乐有人陪，但是真实交心的没几个了，
于是开始怀念过去，想念那时的自己，认为，怎么每个人都变了？
怎么世界变了？开心，怎么那么难了？多希望自己没长大？

想想小时候的自己，多么勇敢，
当第一次学会站立，跨出第一步学习行走，
不管跌了多少次，伤了多少次，
还是不顾一切，就是希望能学会踏出自己的第一步。
这种勇敢，不是我们以身俱来得吗？
但，现在怎么不一样了？

其实，世界没变，
变得，是人的心智，观念，
好多事，其实都能简单的实行，简单的快乐，
但是，因为自己把它复杂化了，所以，快乐变得遥远，

我也曾经迷失，曾经把自己封闭，
但是，长大后发现，原来这些都不是最好的方法，
原来简单的快乐是由自己开始，自己给与得。
就像麦窦一样，虽然，他每一次的同情心都被别人利用，
但是，他却还是那么开心，那么乐意帮助别人，
他追求的不是别人的看法，别人的想法，
而是做好自己想做的达成自己理想的，
开心的过着别人认为很无趣的日子。

我的快乐，也很简单
遇见一只小狗熊，再把它带回家，就能让我很开心，（虽然自己快三十岁了 = =||)
看见漂亮的花花草草，天空的美，把它补抓后的心情也变得漂亮，
听着喜欢的音乐，吃着最爱的麦当劳，就能忘记悲伤，
读着小朋友的故事书，看着卡通电影，也会觉得自己年轻。。。。。。

我不知道别人的简单快乐该怎么达成，
但这些就是我的简单快乐，
就像麦窦每次说的，
不管你付出的，别人看不看的见，你还是得用心付出，
因为那是你开心的理由。

“不管别人说的是真是假，还是得相信你身边的人,
不管别人怎么看你，还是得做自己觉得该做得，
不管失败多少次，还是得相信会有成功得，
不管别人是否诚心对你，还是得自己真心对别人，
不管失恋多少次，还是得觉得你会遇见真爱得”
加油，寻找自己的简单快乐吧！

When you growing older, started to step in the world,

You will start to lock urself up in ur castle,

Those simple mind, will become complicated,

Started to wondering what's in people mind

What's the reason they being friendly with you,

How to became a beatiful liar,

How to be number one among all,

Forgot bout what you had set up when you have your first job,

Your mind had changed, your opinion had changed,

After hurt in Love, you started to be on protection,

Wont easily fall for anyone,

No more "Just Do It" and No more sense about "feeling",

Always worry bout what your fren wanna get from you,

When the moment for party, there's always FRIENDS,

But, those who really care bout you, became lesser and lesser,

You started to wonder, Why is the world changing?

When did everyone changing?

How you wish that you never grow up,

Where's the happiness you looking for?

Well, the world didnt change,

what was changing is our mind, and our heart,

There are so many things can be so simple,

But we just let it be on Complicated,

Do you remember when you were a baby,

How well that you are when learning to step out ur first step?

How much belief you have no matter how many time you fell down?

You just keep learning, keep believing, you can do it,

Where's you courage now?

Where's your confidence now?

Nothing had changed, is us,

We made things so complicated and we block our road to happiness.

I had been lost for sometimes,

I had used to block myself from the world,

But when I growing and getting older,

I realised this is not the best way to find my happiness,

Happiness should be given and found by urself

Just like Mc Dull, He has a gud heart

and he always believe in others

No matter how many times he been cheated,

No matter how others treat him,

He still go for what he wanna do,

cos that's the way he can feel happy,

My happiness, is simple too,

I will be happy when i get a little teddy bear home with me,

I am enjoying to have my time for Music and Mc Donald,

I love those lovely flowers and tree, Beautiful sky, cos they make me feel gud,

I am happy while reading story book or watching Cartoons

Those are my way to stay happy,

I dut know how others reach there,

But, I always believe,

Like Mc Dull said,

"even if others wont see how gud you are, how they treat you,

You still need to be truth and sincere to others

because this the reason to make you happy"

"No matter is other telling the truth, You still have to believe them,

No matter how other jugde you, You still need to do what you believe,

No matter how many time you failed, You still need to believe there's success,

No matter is other treating you sincere, You still have to treat other with sincerity,

No matter how many times you being hurt in love,You still need to believe there's someone waiting for you with true love"

Kambateh! Now go get your Simple Happiness !!!!

Please, Think before you say,请在说话前认真想一想

前几天在面子书留传了某个女生的自述，
她说她是现代恐龙妹，
故事大纲里大约的描述了她因为肥胖而遇见一些原本在网上声称要追求她的男生，因为见面后开始回避她，她也说起好一些人在交朋友或男女朋友时都一味的用外表衡量。
其实，我并不是不赞同她的说法，
但是，事实是，现实社会里，每一个人都是用美与丑来衡量愿不愿意接受一些人或事物得。
就算是小朋友也会被丑怪的东西吓坏。
世界，就是如此不公平。
当然，我们不会介意和心底善良的恐龙交朋友，
可是，谈情说爱，又有多少人愿意呢？
外表都不讨好了，谁会想跨出第二步？
别说我们现实了，
就说说这一些所谓的恐龙家族，如果，他们真那么不在意交男女朋友的外表，哪干吗还到处与美丽帅气的人交朋友呢？
难道他们也不介意自己的男女朋友不好看吗？
难道他们在崇拜偶像之时，不也是先以外表衡量他们吗？
其实，我个人认为，在抱怨埋怨社会现象前，
应该好好想想到底自己该怎么好好提升，改变自己吧？
就像别人说你笨，没知识，事实就是如此，
而你也不愿学习，难道你要抱怨说干吗别人那样说你吗？
竟然知道社会是如此，自己，也是如此，
那就应该好好努力让自己变瘦，变漂亮，帅气啊！
不是有这样一句话吗？
世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人，
如果，连自己也不愿提升，改变自己，增加自信，
那就别再说社会对不起自己了，更何况，自己也是评外表为别人或事物评价的人。。。。。

There was sometimes back I had read an article in Facebook that written by a gal whom call herself  "Miss Dinasour".
She claimed that she met some guys from the internet and when after met,
those Guys that told her they like her just avoid her,
She said there are so many plp in this world who love to know frens started from their look
I cant say I disagree on what her claimed.
But, in the reality, everyone will try to know new things and jugde them by their look from started,isnt so?
Even those little kids if they saw some ugly things, they will also cry and feel scary
This is the World, This is the Reality,
Of cos we dut mind to have a "Dinasour" fren
But, if come to a relationship,
How many of us dut mind how our future Partner or Soul Mate looks like?
Let's see how "Dinoasour Family" behave while they wanna get to know a new fren?
Aint they Judging and Knowing a person from their look when started?
They really dut wish to get a Pretty GF or a Handsome BF?
What's the reason they will like an Idol ?
Isnt it a reason that he is Handsome or She is Pretty?
Actually, I am thinking when before you started to complain or angry bout something
You should really think and consider is that anything you should improve yourself
Just like those plp if they r stupid or they dut willing to learn,
How can they get Frust when someone telling the truth?
If you are really know you are in the way how other see you,
Than you should keep moving and find the way to improve yourself!
There's a Pharse in chinese,
There is no Ugly Lady in the world, Only Lazy Lady in the World,
If you unwilling to change yourslef and improving better,
Than Please, Stop Complaining on how others look and judge you while You are also one of them who judging others by thier appearence.................

is Something?.....无题

nothing much, I am just too into Photo shoot
But too bad, I havent get those money to buy myself a Canon yet
But I will achieved this in Coming new year!!!  Wow !!!
I have my Android and, I am using Flixcam to edit some Pic i take.
Just love to share. =)

those Roses in my room

Lovely Light

the Color made me feel SAD

It just no topic.....

感情 LOVE LOVE LOVE

最近的我不知干吗都在为感情困扰，
很对不起，刚才我刚和某人撇清了关系，
一个很好，很喜欢我的男生。
对不起，就是没法接受你。

这感觉憋了很久，
但是，没办法一直这样。
真的不希望对方越陷越深。

人，越长越大，越看清，就越不擅长说谎了，
我是超注重感觉的人。
喜欢一个人，当开始的时候就会一直陷进去，
不喜欢一个人，就算让我每时每刻对着他，
让我发现他所有优点，我还是那个没有“FEEL”的人。

想法，也许太固执了，
但，就是没办法改变。
有人告诉我，要求别那么高，想法别那么刁钻，
可是，连聊天都没法达到共同点了，
还谈什么情，说什么爱呢？

不知道是不是奸骨头，
用心追求我的人终是没办法喜欢，
太用心了，觉得他们好假，
因为太用心讨好你了，
所以，好担心万一如果成了男女朋友，是不是就会一百八十度转变？
好没有安全感。
还是顺起自然朋友开始就好。
不用担心那么多，也没太多压力。

我不是难搞，但是感情真的没办法培养，或者随便，
如果，找一个自己不爱的人陪在身旁之因为想有个伴，
哪我还是干脆直接的“寂寞寂寞就好。。。。。”

Dut understand why I being Interrupt by "LOVE" this few months,
I jus hate that funny feeling,
and I had just broken somebody heart again,
A nice gentlemen, But too bad,
I dut Like him.

It's been such a long time I wanna tell him My feeling,
But, Now I think I should do it,
Before everything went wrong and I be hurting him Deeper....
Forgive Me.......

I am kind of Person who dut Hide their feeling and mind,
"FEEL" is the Most Important thing to me in my life.
When I fall into someone, I will keep on going till the end,
When I am Not into you from the start, Dut wish that I will change my mind one day
Cos, I WONT.

Maybe I am a little too stuborn,
But, this is who I am, How to change?
Someone told me, Jus dut set your Requirement for BF too HIGH,
But, You cant even talk in the same topic wif a guy
So, how will you suppose to wish that U will be Together with him forever?

I wonder am I a little enjoying Tortune,
Those who care bout me and go after me,
I dut even feel for them,
I am so worry, so worry the way they treat me,
So lovely and nice will only be while they wanna be with me
I have this unsecure feeling that they mite Changed to someone I dut know if I really be with them
I prefer to start from a Friendship rather than Keep Putting Effort on me.

Maybe I am bit Irritating,
But, well, Love really can't be force and dut tell me anymore like,"Times will build it on"
If, I need to be with someone just because I am lonely,
I think I really prefer to stay alone and sing "Just Havent Met You Yet..."